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Day... month... year.... 7 hours 12 minutes .Mian Nguyen updated her profile photo (Oh, it's a black background again), caption: Alone is fine. 750 likes. Comment: Come on girl; The sea is still full of fish; What's the matter, dear sister?; Well, there's nothing anyone would expect about predestined relationships; Are you childish??............
Yeah, maybe that's it, right?
Have you ever worn a black ava when you were sad?
Have you ever seen your friends who wear black ava when they're sad and look too childish?
Or have you ever been afraid to set a black screen for fear of being told off?
There are many young people today like that. There are many different reasons for this ava setting, but in general they are: Need for attention, encouragement and comfort. There are many of my friends who are extremely lonely and need everyone's attention, but don't know who to talk to, who will care for them, because they haven't determined who to share with, so posting These types of statuses are a common way of informing everyone: 'Hey, I'm here, I'm lonely and need help!! Someone come save me." This method notifies many people at the same time, but in general, it is not necessarily very effective because not everyone on social networks is close to you and understands your situation well enough to sympathize. Instead, they will feel terribly uncomfortable when their new day is ruined by your negativity and sadness. As a result, they may even snap or scold you in the comments like this. The example above makes you even sadder.
The second type of people who do this (usually girls), they already know the person they want to confide in but they still feel shy. They don't dare to inbox directly, but post it on a large scale as 'alarming the public' to let that person know and pay attention so they can text them. Yes, of course, this is USUALLY INEFFICIENT, because it's too general, sometimes it doesn't even reach that person's wall. And sometimes they feel like it's not their responsibility to post in general. If that person doesn't do it, there will be someone else. Damn it, the sticky rice is broken!!!!!
So, what should I do? Should I set or can I set ava when I'm sad? If not, what should I do to avoid sadness? I really need to share. If you need to share or feel helpless and sad, please Hug Me, because I'm so cute, it will make all the sadness disappear <33
Just kidding, you don't know who I am. When you feel sad, tired and useless. It's best to find one or two people that you REALLY TRUST AND ARE CLOSE to confide in. It's great to feel cared for and comforted by everyone, but when you're in extreme pain, you only need one or two people. Only truly close people will have enough patience and love to listen to your complaints and find the best way to help you improve the situation.
Trust me, you will feel a lot better.
What if you are alone, with no friends around? In my opinion, you should go take a shower, do something like clean the table to change the atmosphere, or you can inbox me. A nice cute OP will advise you
In general, that's it. I hope each person through this article can see their own solutions and answers. Wishing all my readers great happiness. Remember that I always love you all. HAVE A NICE DAY !!!
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